1/8/2024 0 Comments Spell decisionsWhat I’ve done is I have now created for myself new decisions to make. ![]() And, yes, I have made a substantial contribution to that co-creation by saying, “I’m done here.” But that doesn’t mean that we’re all done. Again, reality continues to be co-created. Maybe that decision to leave the relationship starts a whole new chain of events where things really change within the relationship. But that other person still exists in the world, and may change or not. Let’s say you decide to leave the relationship. Buying the house is a decision that now gives you a new set of decisions. So, you decide to buy the house, and co-creation continues in that house, in that neighborhood, in your work, in your family. I cannot think of very many decisions at all that are final because life keeps going after this decision is made. ![]() Right? I just-when I hear “final decision,” I get in my mind that Who Wants to be a Millionaire show-is that what that show is called? Who Wants to be a Millionaire, where it’s like, “Is that your final answer? Is this your final decision?” So, there’s no right decision.Īlso, there are almost no final decisions. So, how could I possibly make the right decision when I neither know everything nor am in charge completely? OK. I don’t know exactly what is going to happen. I don’t know every single piece that’s in play. So, my one decision has an impact, but my one decision is not the end-all, be-all.Īdditionally, when I’m making a decision, I know what I know, which is not everything. We’re all making decisions, and we’re all making decisions together. That is, I am not the only one deciding out here. I’m going to say that is very, very rarely true because of the co-creative nature of reality. That there exists a right decision, a correct decision. Let’s start out with some lies that our brain, maybe our culture but certainly our human minds will tell us about decisions. So, I wanted to share with you some of that thinking, and then finally sort of a spell or a way of approaching a decision that I think is most helpful.Īll right. So, I’ve been thinking about my decision-making process, and some of my thinking around decision-making, and I’m noticing that depending on the way I am thinking about what a decision even is, I will feel either better and more excited and more hopeful about it, or I will feel worse and more scared and more anxious about it. It is making me feel expansive but also it’s unmoored me a little bit. I decided to make an investment in myself and my business, and it is both exciting and scary, as many decisions are. ![]() This is up for me personally right now because just last week, I made a, well, what felt like a really big decision. I’m glad that you’re here with me today to think about decision-making. I’m your host, Natalie Miller, and I’m so glad you’re here. Which next step takes you in that direction? What values are most important that area of your life? Wherever it’s time for you to make a decision, shift away from Right/Wrong and toward Values and Qualities.
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